There is no such thing as failure, only feedback

“There’s no such thing as failure only feedback” This is a presupposition from NLP, Neuro Linguistic Programming, and I remember not understanding it the first time. I had failed at many things. Failing felt awful. Failing felt like I had let myself and others down by not being good enough. I didn’t realise until sometime […]

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What do you do for a living?

What do you do for a living? Some people will say “I’m a doctor,” or “I’m a computer programmer.” Our identities, our sense of who we are, get caught up in what we do . When this happens and jobs shift and change as AI and automation removes certain parts of our roles, we will […]

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If not this then something better

How we respond to setbacks is an important skill to develop individually & collectively. We set out plans, goals and projects to strive towards. We create signposts to aim for between the end goal and where we are now. We’re in a world where the number of variables that can influence our journey is so […]

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Purpose, an evolution over 10+ years and why starting with why still works

I love this quote from Barney Stinson from How I Met Your Mother and used to think of it more often than I currently do. I’ve been paying attention over the last few months to my thought-process after taking on a new stretch assignment in work and so this quote came into my head today. […]

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Self Belief, Learning and Confidence

I recorded this video earlier on today and just wanted to comment on some of the themes in this because they’re worth reflecting on! A friend of mine sent me a message saying that he recognised my self belief and self confidence, and wanted to know how I got here through self-learning! Self-learning I think […]

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What would you like to read about?

I’ve been writing actively on this blog for the last few months and I’m on an exciting journey towards becoming a Life and Business Coach. I’ve been sharing my experiences and things I’m learning but I’m just wondering if there is anything you guys would like to hear or learn about! I have so much […]

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10 Rules for Being Human

1.  You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it’s yours to keep for the entire period. 2.  You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a full-time informal school called, “life.” 3.  There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial, error, and experimentation. The “failed” […]

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Classroom of life: I’ve learned… Author Unknown

I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone that can be loved. The rest is up to them. I’ve learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back. I’ve learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to […]

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Wisdom and Inspirational Quotes

1. It’s not that I’m so smart, it’s just that I stay with problems longer. —Albert Einstein 2. Eighty percent of success is showing up. —Woody Allen 3. I respect faith, but doubt is what gets you an education. —Wilson Mizner 4. The greatest obstacle to discovery is not ignorance; it is the illusion of […]

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