Start local when thinking of purpose

The current situation has, I think, made things feel more local. We speak to our neighbours more, we shop more locally and when restricted to certain areas, we have to walk, cycle or run more locally too. I was thinking of this and the link to life purpose, and drew two options A and B […]

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Do we add sails or remove anchors?

Which is more efficient, moving to the first option by adding sales on the right or the second by removing anchors? I was thinking yesterday evening about how I’m so guilty of wanting new shiny things and convincing myself that I need them. I drew this picture to try and make sense of this for […]

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Create challenging goals

Goals, whether individual goals or team goals, should challenge you not so you do more things but that you become a better person in the process. Goals also need to be clear rather than generic and you should be able to articulate the meaning behind the goal. Why do you want to achieve it? How […]

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#LittleCoachingTip #1: E + R = O

Event + Response = Outcome I’ve posted about this formula previously – but I think it’s a useful formula to remember because of it’s simplicity and also the number of times you can use it to challenge your habitual habits and choose a better response to give you a better outcome. If events or situations […]

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Assumptions – can you test them? 

I think we often make excuses or don’t take action because of assumptions we’re carrying which haven’t been tested. Can you test your assumptions? Is there any specific things you want to change and your assumptions have become beliefs and they’re holding you back? Have you ever challenged them? Questioned them? It normally looks like […]

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15 challenges to start your new year

Instead of setting resolutions, I set challenges for myself every year. This is a list of 15 challenges I have found helpful previously in my personal development and wellbeing. I’ve noticed some changes in my energy and my interactions with those around me from taking these challenges. 1. Smile at the person who makes you […]

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Fall in love with the problem, not your solution

I love solving problems. Sometimes I even have answers and solutions that can solve problems for clients, friends and family and it feels great knowing stuff and being able to share it. Often though we can misfire and solve a similar but potentially different problem. Or we can solve the problem with our solution that […]

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“It’s greater than zero so it’s better than negative”

I said this recently to a colleague and thought a useful reframe to share after blue Monday this week. Typically new year starts with renewed attention on who we are, what we’re not doing well and where we could improve. Blue Monday is typically a day in January when people have tried new actions, failed […]

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Decision making and 5 principles

Improving decision making is an area I’ve been paying attention to over the last few months. I heard on a podcast recently with Shane Parrish (Farnam Street) a quick summary to help you in your decision making: What are the variables? How do the variables interact? How am I fooling myself in this situation? There […]

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The map is not the territory

On a call recently with one of my friends, we were discussing how people can experience the same thing, yet react to it totally differently. We can only control how we respond to events, I don’t think we have much power to control everything that happens to us. We can’t stop the rain, but we […]

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